April 1, 1978

Thirty-one years ago, Michael and I were married with about 75 guests in a beautiful contemporary church in Indianapolis. The church was famous for its pipe-organ that accompanied my grandfather’s gorgeous baritone voice. Oh, how he could sing! I was so proud of him.
Yes, the tuxedoes look tacky now (it was the 70’s what can I say?), but still Michael was so handsome with his beautiful blue eyes gazing into mine when we said our vows. *swoon*
My sister, Tracie, who was in high school at the time, made my gown from a very complicated Vogue pattern. It was satin and lace, and all of the hand-sewing was done by Mom. It was the kind of gown I’d always dreamed of wearing.
I think the ceremony was only about 10 minutes, just long enough to get the job done! We had cake and punch in the church basement. After that, we were off to the clubhouse where my sister and brother-in-law lived for a reception/beer party, though, not until I got three of my fingers slammed in the car door! My fingers hurt for weeks after that! I wanted to cry like a baby, but I didn’t.
Michael and I had been buying LP’s especially for the party. I remember a couple of them now, “The Commodores” (with the songs, “Brick House” and “Easy”) and Billy Joel’s “The Stranger”. Of course we had our favorites The Allman Brothers and Lynyrd Skynyrd. We had a keg of beer, sodas, and a 6 foot long submarine sandwich. Mom made a bunch of salads, aunts and uncles brought dishes to serve too. It was windy, but warm and sunny so we could go outside and enjoy the weather. Just the weekend before, most of the Midwest had been hit by a horrible ice storm.
Most of our guests had driven over from Carlinville, Illinois and were staying at The Red Roof Inn on the south side of Indy. When the party was over, we all headed down there for more partying! Michael and I didn’t stay that long, but we could tell there were going to be some wild times at The Red Roof Inn because Busch beer-bottle labels were already being papered on the walls of one room. We found out later that the manager came to my father-in-laws room and asked him to stop the partying going on in room 135. He responded by saying “Hey, they are 21 years old, you go tell them…” Needless to say he went back to the front desk and didn’t say another word.
Michael and I then headed to our room for “our”night at the airport Hilton. He’d bought us the “Honeymoon” deal. We checked in, got to our room, and waited for the dude to bring us our champagne and roses. We waited… and waited…, and after about 40 minutes it was just too much! It was “business time”.
We got busy snuggling, and just as things were getting really fun, there was a knock on the door. Then the door was opening!
Michael scrambled from the bed. I got under the covers with only my eyes peering out! He sprinted to the door to keep the dumbass out of the room, grabbed a towel, and told the guy, “Uh, I’m kinda buck-ass naked here. What do you want?” Dumbass Dude says, “I’m here to deliver the champagne and roses that you ordered.” and therefore let the dude in to deliver the champagne while he hid behind the door!!!
There was my new husband, standing behind the door while the idiot bell boy brings in the good stuff. Suffice it to say the only one that got a “tip” that night was me…
And thus it began. And what a wonderful and warm ride it has been !
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Doorman did that on purpose!!! You didn’t know that??
Our wedding was much the same….family,20 minute service, keg….! You have been together for so long!
Congratulations on 31 years and wishing you much, much more happiness!
We didn’t realize the Dumbass Doorman did it on purpose until the next day, and then we were, “DOH”! Thank you, Chris.
Congrats to you and Michael!!!
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Thank you Dutchy!
Congratulations!!!! Happy Anniversary!
(And, how did I miss this post? It just showed up on my reader!)
xoxo
I started writing this post on the 1st, but only finished it yesterday.
Thank you, Sybil
Awww, congratulations. You both look beautiful in this photo and so happy. And your dress is gorgeous. Such a nice memory, too. Thanks for sharing that!!
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It really is a wonderful memory for us. I’m glad you enjoyed our story, Faiqa.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO BOTH OF YOU!!!!!
You look adorable in that picture, by the way.
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Hilly, thank you so much!
Just showed up in my reader, too. Happy belated anniversary! You are awesome and Mike is one of the coolest old guys I know.
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Thank you, Adam!
I had forgotten that Tracie made your dress !
Congratulations on the 31 yrs and great post!
Yes, she sure did, she’s so talented. Oh, and Tracie made my senior prom dress too. It doesn’t seem like 31 years have gone by, does it? Thank you
Congratulations! Jeesh, it seems like just yesterday. I remember my diaper was riding up my butt and…
Anyway, since you mentioned “Business Time”…I must post a link to “Business Time” by Flight of the Concords. I know you’ll love it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGOohBytKTU
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You were adorable even if your diaper was going up your crack. Oh yeah, “Business Time” is one of my fave videos! I love that show.
Wow….31 years! Amazing! Happy belated anniversary!
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Thank you, BB!
A little late here, but congrats on 31 years! That is amazing.
The morning after my honeymoon night, my new husband and I awoke to the sound of the ringing phone.
It was my MOM!
Gawd!
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T-shirt, thank you very much. Your MOM called you? You poor thing LOL!
Wow, happy, happy anniversary, 31 years is phenomenal! Great post, and thanks for the peek at your special day.
I just re-discovered you… last time I visited you were in Singapore!
Hey Karen, thank you very much. It’s nice to “see” you again!
Cool! Happy anniversary! :-
Thanks, Dave! See you soon
Happy Anniversary. I thought I already left a comment here. Guess I didn’t.
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You did! I read it and replied to it! How could they just disappear? That’s really weird.